Monday, December 29, 2008
EXPECTATION
EXPECTATIONthis word really affects a relationship alot..
be it between:
-parent and child
-siblings
-boss and empolyee
-colleague
-husband and wife
-boyfren and girlfren
-teacher and student
-God and us
-frens
-ourselves
etc etc...
it affects alot...
when there is expectations = u bother.. means something has to be done...
when u dont expect much from a person, the burden of tt person not fulfilling it is way much lesser...
yet some expectations are left unsaid... den things will go bitter... but yet some expectations are so plain to see by each other..(again... we assume it is plain to see)
in actual fact i really dislike "expectations" some times..
when i couldnt meet up to a person's expectations.. situation b/w us will be bitter or unhappy...
but i could... its a plus pt...
for certain expectation some ppl think its plain to see.. and sometimes wonder why the other party couldnt see it.. den! relationship starts to crumble after a long period of time without settling it properly.. and just move on..
some ppl think.. if i list out my expectation alr... and yet the other party still didnt fulfil... isnt it the same.. i rather not say cuz it wont make a diff..
HUMANS ARE COMPLICATED IDIOTS! wonder how God create such creatures like us! hahaha!!!
tts why God is so amazing..cuz he is the creator...
screw the expectations... cuz it causes so much trouble to ppl.. ok.. maybe not all but most of us... is any pt of time in our life..
at least to me.. we can be real great as frens.. but as we have more expectations of the other... situations and how u react to it differs..
as a fren i expect to...
as my partner u shld...
as my employee u must..
eg. a fren was ur fren still i work under her.. she becomes ur boss.. she expect you as a employee to get this done... but u didnt manage to do it.. she'll get angry.. bla bla bla...
u see how jialat things can get to?
when relationship/status changes expectations changes..
are we able to adapt to it quick enough?
12:29 AM